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for a long time it seemed to me that life was about to begin , real life. But, there was always some obsacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinnished business, time still to be served or a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that there is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way. So treasure every moment that you have and treasure it more because you share it with someone special, someone special enough to spend your time with. Make the most of your time. Don’t waste too much of your time studying, working, or stressing about something that seems important. Do what you want to do to be happy but also do what you can to make the people you care about happy. Remember that time waits for no one. So stop waiting until you take your last test, until you finnish school, until you go back to school, until you have the perfect body, the perfect car, or whatever other perfect thing you desire.
Stop waiting until the weekend, when you can party or let loose, until summer, spring, fall or winter, until you find the right person and get married, until you die, until your born again, to decide that there is no better time than right now to be happy.
Happiness is a journey,
not a destination.
So work like you don’t need the money,
Love like you have never been hurt, and dance like no one’s watching.
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(中文台词)
他说一周以后就回来，但他一直没有出现。一个月过去了，两个月过去了，听说给美周寄明信片了，而我连一通电话、一张明信片都没有收到…人与人之间互相了解，是多么难的一件事，我现在才明白。我知道我不是很了解他，但这也太过份了，我对自己也不是很了解，怎么能去了解别人…我是在等他还是在放弃他，我自己也不知道
 
                   去爱吧，就像不曾受过一次伤一样
                   跳舞吧，就像没有人欣赏一样
                   去爱吧，就像不曾受过一次伤一样
                   唱歌吧，就像没有任何人聆听一样
                   干活吧，就像不需要钱一样
                   生活吧，就像今天是末日一样 

说实话，我也想这样，假装不曾受过一次伤害，真想认真地爱一次，可结局却成了这样。我真想改改那文章：不想受伤害的话，就不要去爱…

出处 2

1. 我们要不要孩子？如果要，主要由谁负责？
2. 我们的赚钱能力及目标是什么？消费观及储蓄观会不会发生冲突？
3. 我们的家庭如何维持？由谁来掌握可能出现的风险？
4. 我们有没有详尽地交换过双方的疾病史？包括精神上的。
5. 我们父母的态度有没有达到我们的预期？会不会给足够的祝福？
6. 我们有没有自然、坦诚地说出自己的性需求、性的偏好及恐惧？
7. 卧室能放电视机吗？
8. 我们真的能倾听对方诉说，并公平对待对方的想法和抱怨吗？
9. 我们清晰地了解对方的精神需求及信仰吗？我们讨论过孩子将来的信仰问题吗？
10. 我们喜欢并尊重对方的朋友吗？
11. 我们能不能看重并尊敬对方的父母？我们有没有考虑到父母可能会干涉我们的关系？
12. 我的家族最让你心烦的事情是什么？
13. 我们永远不会因为婚姻放弃的东西是什么？
14. 如果我们中的一人需要离开其家族所在地陪同另一人到外地工作，做得到吗？
15. 我们是不是充满信心面对任何挑战使婚姻一直往前走？

如果说喜欢是一个人的事，那恋爱则是两个人的，而婚姻除了两个人，还有背后的两对家庭，甚至更多人！